Most people know that meditation can help with stress but get stressed by the thought of it because they think meditation is complicated. The great news is that you cannot do meditation wrong! There is no judge or jury and anyone can do it!
Read on to learn the benefits of meditation along with a simple how to guide that is easy to follow!
How Does Meditation Work?
A big part of meditation is just simply sitting quietly (typically
with eyes closed), and just taking this simple step has been shown to result in
significant and immediate changes in the brain! In fact, MRI images show a
complete change in the brain’s different departments, which results in a
relaxation response in the rest of the body.
During meditation, beta waves, which are associated
with information processing, are replaced by alpha waves, which are associated
with brain coherence. The frontal and parietal lobes, which deal with
reasoning, planning, and processing sensory information, slow down. And through
the significant reduction in incoming sensory stimuli, the nervous system shifts
to relation mode with improved functioning throughout the body.
The autonomic nervous system (which is essentially
the automatic control system for the body) consists of two branches: the Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS) and Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS).
The Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS) is associated with preparing
the body for physical or mental activity. In response to a stressor, the SNS initiates the "fight-or-flight response" to prepare for action. It increases muscle blood flow and tension,
dilates pupils, accelerates heart rate and respiration, and increases
perspiration and arterial blood pressure. To conserve and concentrate
energy, it slows down digestive activity.
The counterpart to the SNS is
the Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS) which is essential for rest and recovery. It is responsible for the
"rest-and-digest" or "feed and breed" activities that
occur when the body is at rest, especially after eating, including sexual
arousal, salivation, lacrimation, urination, digestion and defecation. The PNS puts the brakes on the flight or fight response.
Particularly in these times it is easy to have your Sympathetic Nervous System turned on all the
time. This is what being “Stressed Out” is
all about. This is where meditation and exercise can become critical for reducing this response.
On a physical level, meditation:
·
Lowers
high blood pressure
·
Lowers
the levels of blood lactate, reducing anxiety attacks
·
Decreases
tension-related pain, such as, tension headaches, ulcers, insomnia, muscle and
joint problems
·
Increases
serotonin production that improves mood and behavior
·
Improves
the immune system
·
Increases
the energy level, as you gain an inner source of energy
Mental Benefits of Meditation
Meditation relaxes the
body as well as the mind. Without constant stimuli entering the sensory
pathways, the mind is able to relax and enter a state of deep rest. Meditation also
allows for a deeper connection with the inner self. In doing so, self-esteem
increases and people find that they get in touch their authentic feelings and desires which allows for better self-regulation. With
regular practice of meditation:
·
Anxiety
decreases
·
Emotional
stability improves
·
Creativity
increases
·
Happiness
increases
·
Intuition
develops
·
Gain
clarity and Peace of Mind
·
Problems
become smaller
·
Meditation
sharpens the mind by increasing focus and expands through relaxation
·
A
sharp mind without expansion causes tension, anger and frustration
·
An
expanded consciousness without sharpness can lead to lack of action/progress
·
The
balance of a sharp mind and an expanded consciousness brings perfection
·
Increases
emotional steadiness and balance
How To Meditate
There are many different ways to meditate, and many
people never get started because some of these methods can seem very
complicated and challenging. People try
to meditate and think they are “doing it wrong” because they do not know what
to expect.
The fact is that meditation is simply sitting quietly
and comfortably (usually with your eyes closed) while letting thoughts and feelings come
and go! Sitting in a chair is fine – you
do not need to sit in cross-legged position on the floor unless this is
comfortable. The key is being able to
relax, and for some people, kneeling with pillows or pads under the hips or using a
kneeling chair allows them to relax while keeping the spine in alignment.
It is natural and normal for the mind to
wander and generate all sorts of thoughts and feelings – the key is to learn to
watch them come and go because thoughts and feelings never last! We are not our thoughts or our feelings. It is helpful to try to pay attention to your
breathing – do not try to control it – just pay attention to it. Thoughts and feelings will intrude and this
is NOT a problem – it is normal.
When
your mind inevitably drifts and you become aware of it return your attention to
your breathing. This process of
drifting in thoughts and feelings and coming back to your breathing IS
meditation. There is no “doing it
wrong.” Think of it like house cleaning
for your brain. This is why dreaming is
so essential – your brain is cleaning house when you dream and to some extent
meditation is just wakeful dreaming.
Try to set a timer and sit for 10 minutes a day and
gradually increase the time to 20 or 30 minutes per day. It is crucial NOT to judge yourself –
remember thoughts and feelings are normal – just watch the show! If you stick with this overtime the “noise”
in your mind will slow down.
There are many apps available to help you meditate
and many people find them helpful – the key is to use them daily and NOT judge
yourself – just sit and be with yourself.
At first this can be challenging, but over time it
gets easier and easier – good luck!