As the saying goes “Talk is cheap”, and most New Year’s
Resolutions end up not happening. So
here are some tips on how to make sure you actually follow through on your
resolutions!
Write Down your goal
– the act of writing goals is a concrete action and makes you more likely to
follow through in taking action to achieve the goal. Use the SMART goal format:
Specific – vague
goals are dreams and dreams never happen.
Measurable –
being able to measure progress and success are key for something to be true
goal.
Achievable – do
not set yourself up for failure by setting unrealistic goals.
Relevant – make
sure the goal is something that is important to you.
Timebound – you
must set a deadline for achieving the goal – because without a deadline you are
just day-dreaming.
Focus on one goal at
a time – science has proven that we only have so much willpower and if we
set to many goals we run out of steam.
Focusing on one goal at a time allows you to conserve your willpower and
discipline enhancing your chance of reaching your goal.
Create habits that
lead to your goal – when something becomes a habit it takes a lot less
mental energy and willpower to complete it.
So start with small, easy to achieve habits that help you move towards
your goal. For example committing
yourself to a 5 minute walk each morning or evening is a simple and relatively
easy commitment. Then when you follow
through and start to do it each day you create a habit.
Plan Your Work then
Work Your Plan - science also shows that people who create a plan are much
more likely to achieve their goal. Part
of your plan should be becoming aware of the triggers of your bad habits and
planning on avoiding them. For example,
if you are trying to quit smoking and you know that going to a coffee shop is a
trigger for lighting up – plan on avoiding coffee shops. Many bad habits are associated with specific
locations.
Share your goal with
others - sharing your goals with friends, family or co-workers can
help provide support. Studies have
shown that people who share weight loss goals with family are 22% more likely
to succeed.
Plan on Mistakes and
focus on progress instead of perfection - we all make mistakes, but just because we make a single
error of judgement or have a short lapse in willpower does not mean we need to
give up on a goal! If you make a
mistake, such as having a high calorie meal while trying to lose weight, do not
give up on the whole effort. Acknowledge
the lapse – and get back on the horse!
By focusing on progress, you put mistakes in context. For example, if your goal is weight loss and
you have a week with 6 days of following your plan perfectly but ha